This is really, really good advice. I'm not one of the mail-order bride posse, but marriage in North America is something you want to think LONG AND HARD about. A lot people really shouldn't get married, and suffer horribly as a consquence.
"A lot people really shouldn't get married, and suffer horribly as a consquence."
More precisely and most importantly, it's the children who suffer.
They have ambushed men and women both with their "men are oppressors" nonsense.
Marriage is damn hard work and if both parties are not contributing, especially in this day and age it just is not going to work.
Regards,