Advice from the quiet porch of a late-middle-aged man: don't over emphasize sex; if you ate peaches every day, eventually the sight of a peach would be unsettling to your digestion. Sex is a God-given gift for a man and woman who love each other and want to face the future of 'family'. Sex bonds two people together through physical and emotional vulnerability and fulfillment. Sex is not a sport or a health workout and should be given the time and care any cherished activity is afforded. Companionship and trust are the two most important aspects of the union between man and woman ... she needs it for free expression and nest building and he is more fulfilled if he exercises the fidelity to submit to her need and then enjoy the warmth of her nest.
thanks...seems like a lot of marriages get off the track from sex issues (if it isn't about money).