I favor State Constitutional Amendments over DOMA's, and I certainly want to keep the decision out of the hands of the Federal government and keep it with the States.
My problem with the 1996 Federal DOMA (signed into law by that great defender of the institution of marriage, William Jefferson Clinton), is two fold:
2. I don't trust the Federal government.
Make the forces looking to legitimize same sex marriage fight 50 individual fights, not one "winner takes all" fight at the Federal level.
Why?
See item #2 above.
Thanks for the ping!
They don't have to fight 50 fights. All they have to do is travel to the nearest same-sex-marriage state, get "married," and return home. Either all gay activists in states not recognizing gay marriage would do this, or what is more likely, enough would do it, that all the non-gay-marriage states would eventually simply bend over and take it.