With all due respect, I have one friend in Houston that's a special ed teacher (had her arm broken, spit on, had to stop kids from masturbating on other students, etc.) I have three friends who are teachers (elem, jh) in the Austin area, one of which started as a sub for three years. Another friend moved up from 8th grade to principal. Finally, I'm dating a girl from California now that quit teaching after 10 years because she could no longer fight the diminishing returns of her self investment.
Yes, I believe that by LISTENING to my friends, I have developed a very interesting perspective on education and how it relates to my own (distant) 'education.'
Furthermore, the condom reference comes from my niece and nephew who are always fascinated to learn from their uncle that Bush is NOT personally killing babies in Iraq, that America did not invent slavery, that Columbus and Washington and Jefferson are not historical villians. I listen to the kids, and they teach me what they learn about in school, including condoms and anal sex.
Clara, I am a successful American in spite of my public education experience. While I sense whining in your missive, you should also sense bitterness in my response. I graduated from college with honors with the help of precious few of my k-12 teachers, and with a whole helluva lotta friction from teachers that cared about POWER first, and LEARNING last.
I'll be the first to admit that the opportunity of an educator to influence lives (positive or negative) is not reflected in the compensation, and a public school teacher (and the even less well compensated private teacher) is almost compelled to give more than they take.
But as my girlfriend did, if a person is unable or is no longer willing to make that sacrifice, then GET OUT.
And review your last paragraph. That's a classic strawman argument. I didn't advance any such argument, you constructed it to advance your own argument.