Compared to leaving him in China?
Probably yes.
My experience with lesbians is that they're unable to be close to men because of either hate or fear. They may have come by it honestly through experience, or they may have had it instilled in them through indoctrination.
Either way, allowing them control of a male child's upbringing is running a major risk of a physically and emotionally abusive environment.
Recall the story of the two who had several children, and the males were kept in a closet and beaten and abused by both the butch and the femme? They've been jailed, and the kids placed out, but the damage is done.