Ironically, the person most responsible for the split between my sister and the rest of the family is my sister. She finds fault in us all in some way, once telling my parents she saw theirs as a sexist relationship because my dad 'got' to go to work and my mom 'had' to stay home when we were little, even though my mother wanted to be home with us. (hell, if anyone missed out it was my dad, not my mom) Her guard is constantly up, sensing attack from every angle and in everything she sees or hears. It's impossible to be close to her unless you agree with everything she believes in.
My parents couldn't have been more accepting of my sister, but for my father's sin of taking some time to totally accept the situation she was angry with him. Nothing but total and complete approval is enough. What a sad way to live that must be - so much anger....
It fits, sadly, with the in your face nature of homosexual activism. Homosexual days at disney at the same time as school field trips are Homosexual disney weekend on the same day as father day are along those lines of intending to provoke a reaction.
As Hitler said "who cares what you think, I have your children."