I think KJ knows I consider him a brother in Christ. We do agree on most essentials, but that is not the point, the point is giving God the glory for what he does.
We might actually argue that KJ and I have different Gods as mine is trustworthy and faithful , but the difference is actually I give God all honor and glory for every hair on my head , for every bird that falls and every man that repents.
When I discuss Reform doctrine it is not a who is right..it is to whom do we REALLY give all the glory
I do not see that KJ is not giving God all the glory. When you say that KJ's God is not trustworthy and faithful, do you consider that you might be offending your "brother in Christ"? You worship the same God with the same attributes, you just define your theological doctrine differently. My question is, so what? God will reveal Himself to all of us in due time. I bet we are all wrong about one thing or another.