>>I'm in a church of 5000. We blew past the line about 2 years ago, as best I can tell. I just woke up one day and realized where we were. I don't think we can get back to be honest.<<
In my humble opinion, if you don't like where your church is on a particular issue, it is of high doctrinal importance, and you believe you cannot change it, you change churches. I've never had to change churches for that particular reason however, but I am always prepared to.
I don't disagree with you. The problem is that I've been there since I was 9 years old in 1968. My family is there. All of our friends are there. We have a lot of relationships that we enjoy. Changing churches can be a difficult decision. Anyway... best wishes and have a nice evening.