archy's very much needed on this forum, and in this war - on our side.
Whatever the reason, and I suspect I know, we all say things in the heat of battle, and discovering that private messages via Freepmail are not private...a wilfull act by another, spying on mail.. is rather a larger breech of ethics than anything simply said by a disappointed FRiend, imho.
We all make mistakes, and overreact.
Even Admin Mods....and we all need forgiveness, and we need our strongest allies - especially fighting this enemy, this election year.
Ditto what Ragtime Cowgirl said.