[Archangelsk]

Follow up with that by the following: do you define your life by the things that you own/borrow from the bank? I had one poor soul brag to me for about an hour about the $40,000+ vehicle he had just "purchased." I asked him how he paid for it and he said that he "put his wife to work."

A divorce waiting to happen as far as I'm concerned.

[EGPWS]

Follow up with that by the following: do you define your life by the things that you own/borrow from the bank?

Definition of a bank:

A safe location for one's "hard earned" finances to be used by the bank to promote investment by them and at the same time giving return for the opportunity to use such finances.

I don't see an issue with this scenario.

The definition of my life however is an issue to be discussed between myself and my creator!

Nobody else.