Crystal has been busy trying to re-create her life in the short time since Al's passing. She asked me to pass this message along.
I want to thank all of you for your compassion and the overwhelming kindness shown to me. Someone at Alan's service said that he didn’t know what to say.
Well, there aren’t any words. I can’t express how sad I am to lose the love of my life or to express my thanks to you for your support.
I was asked to describe Alan for the service. This is my response. “How do you describe a man who began hunting alone (at least he thought so) in the Louisiana woods at seven years old; who scaled cliffs like spider-man; who backpacked in the Everglades, deserts and mountains; who loved teaching anyone (including me) to hunt or fish; who could move through the woods silently; who took such pleasure backpacking with me and was delighted that I could keep up with him; who loved surprising me every holiday; who loved and protected his family; who was chosen for Boy Scout 'Order of the Arrow'; who helped boys including disabled ones earn merit badges; who was so tall that when he picked up the grandchildren they thought they were on an amusement park ride; who was a good friend; who could make me so mad sometimes and was “in the doghouse” occasionally; who came to believe and studied the Bible each week with me; who was articulate; and who valued freedom and liberty enough to fight for it.
This last year was difficult for both of us with his illness getting more and more debilitating. It seemed to take Alan bit by bit as some of you surmised from his recent postings. But in the last few weeks he had hope that he might be made well again. Thankfully, I know God has Alan now and I know He will see me through this.
Alan valued the discourses and the friendships made online with you and I am grateful for that. Please accept my sincere gratitude.
I miss him.
Crystal Albertus
In Memory of Alan Albertus (labgrade)
There will be a picnic on Memorial Day May 31, 2004
At Parrish Park in Johnstown, Colorado
The picnic will begin at 11:00 am and go until about 3:00 pm
This ill be a pot-luck picnic, or at least bring your own food
There will be a grill available to barbeque.
Come visit with Crystal and bring your fond memories of Al
and join us as we informally remember Al,
the way he would have wanted it.
For the latest go to www.lovelandnet.com/labgrade/
It looks like this may turn into a fund raiser of sorts for Al's wife and her son Shane. Shane's heart has begun being rejected and there may be some kidney damage as well.
Crystal is doing well, but will need some help supporting her son's family for a while.