Happy, did you *really* speak to Bogdan by phone? Please, please, share the details of your phonecall. Also, the other thing that will
'break his heart (further)'
to quote you, Happy2BMe, is that his guestbook has a few comments that aren't necessarily sympathetic. Next time you have a phonecall with him (when he gets back from Poland or whatever) have him give you a way to point to media coverage of the tragedy so folks will stop thinking he made the whole thing up. Good thing YOU talked to him, guess you know how true the whole thing is, eh? And BTW, here's the link to the guestbook I mentioned ...
http://home.comcast.net/wsb-cgi-bin/ssi.cgi?Owner=bogdanpolska12&PWPTool=GBView&wsbID=420724&GroupID=383544&State=TrueNotice his website is gone as well.