[Just another Joe]

Had you as in you were agreeing, or had you as in you understand?
What's so hard to believe about a woman putting herself through college by dancing at a nudie bar or waitressing at a topless club?
The fact that they can be an upstanding, moral citizen?
Sometimes you do what you have to to get someplace better. (As long as it's legal)
That's a fact of life that many people don't want to acknowledge.

[Vision]

I think we just see life differently. She didn't need to arouse guys to pay for her tuition. It was what she choose.

Personally, I don't think she could make a very good mother. Because she has shown that she does not value herself very high. So, can she raise a daughter to do so?