Whatever....
The women I know were in it for one reason and one reason only, to get through college in a normal amount of time beholden to no one for it.
I will admit that I don't make it a habit to go, I don't go at all, to strip clubs or topless bars so I don't know hundreds or thousands of strippers.
I don't doubt that there are strippers out there that are exactly like you describe.
You DO seem to doubt that there are any strippers out there like I describe.
My experience versus your reading. I'll take my experience, with these particular women, over your reading.
Anecdotes are nice, but when they fly in the face of overwhelming evidence and basic human psychology...