I saw a discussion with a whole lot of the WTC families on MSNBC one day; some of the families actually said out loud that, why, yes, since you asked, MY husband was worth more than the people who worked in the restaurant on the top floor.
It was one of the most shocking displays of greed I have EVER seen in my entire life.
It is not my fault that they were living beyond their means with NO LIFE INSURANCE; it is not MY duty, nor yours, to keep these people in the style to which they have become accusomted.
They should sell their SUVs, pull the kids out of private school, unload the expensive house, and get a damn job, just like you and I would do if something like this happened to us.