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There is a lot of talk about the problem of fatherless boys. But what about fatherless girls? One of the things fathers do better than mothers is protect their little girls from sexual predators.

But instead of being protected, many fatherless girls spend puberty fending off the advances of their mother's boyfriends.

Much of the responsibility for this lies with courts' built-in bias against fathers in custody disputes.

29 posted on 04/06/2004 8:01:25 AM PDT by Law
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On topic: Imagine being chattle within a brutally misogynistic culture enslaved by a religion which commands world conquest while conflicted with misoneisn.

Brides of 9 y.o. or so can be negotiated, simply purchased from their fathers. Old maids are 18 y.o. Honor killings keep the ladies in their place and families' honors pure.

Off topic ditto.

I rarely date women with flowering girls because I found their daughters experienced from their mothers sleeping around for most or all of their lives. The girls, "acting out" when they didn't like me, too often openly sexually flirted with the full understanding as to what they were doing. The kids knew I was having sex with their moms. Teens flashing clevage, nipples, butts, and crotches were saddened me as well as endangered me. Of course I quit dating their mothers, likely what the girls wanted.

For nearly 20 years, I have occasionally read 'Seventeen' to 'Cosmo' type instruction manuals to judge the intense sexuality hammered into "fashion" for young women. (My extended family is full of daughters.) I never watched 'Sex in the City' because I have known too many of those pitiful women.

Part-time sub-teaching in Dallas high/jr.-high schools over 4 years -'86 to '89, in my 30's I was hit on several times by 15-18 y.o. girls practicing their sexuality, IMO, playing with fire - had I taken them seriously and not reported them. I understand teachers accused of sexual contact with girls and even guys. I met one 13 y.o. who could have passed for an eye magnet 20 y.o. C-cup Playmate, but she had the brain of a childish 13 y.o. I had a 16 y.o. pretty girl of upper-middle class, divorcing parents who had several convictions for prostitution, taking johns to her own apt. - leased by her own parents because Mom and Dad were too busy with their own sex partners during the protracted divorce; she offered her services to me and she was a pretty 5'4" blonde. I aked and was told that she and her 2 "best friends" in that class had divorced mothers, seeing their fathers usually no more than one weekend a month. That was the case of nearly every kid who was a problem in class. That was the first question I asked the kids. Eventually I was told by counselors/other teachers to stop asking that question because it shouldn't be asked. = "stimatize the child" don'tcha know.

It is a crying shame that fathers have been 'Ruled' a trivial, inconvenient influence on their children. I expect tens of millions of the generation of mothers ~ Boomers and the currently breeding generation AND their daughters shall have lonely lives later in life because of the absence of intimacy with daddies.

Non-sexual emotionally intimate relationships with older men is absent from far too many women; IMO, these relationships can teach young women constructive vs destructive behavior with the girls' sex partner(s). (I have had 4 avunlular relationships with embittered 26-31 y.o. single women, who had never had a reliable father figure to teach them what caring men are about.

Ameica has at least two damaged generations of women.

113 posted on 04/06/2004 11:18:10 AM PDT by SevenDaysInMay (Federal judges and justices serve for periods of good behavior, not life. Article III sec. 1)
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