[Capriole]

I feel very sorry for black women. I have a close friend who is a black physician. She can never find a moderately successful, educated middle-aged black man who is not already married and who will treat her as she deserves. There are good college-educated black men, but they're outnumbered and the competition for them is stiff.

Black women need to (1) put their legs together and not put out for black men who behave badly, and (2) maybe start looking further afield, like to white and Hispanic men. There are plenty of white men who find black women attractive.

[KingNo155]

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[HitmanLV]

Don't feel to sorry for black women. They can date outside their race, after all, if prospects in their race are not to their liking.

Ain't no law against it.

[Warrior Nurse]

I am single successful and of the problems that black women have are self perpetuating. As a black man I see this happening on a frequent basis. Go to the local mall or supermarket and observe how the women treat their male sons. The antagonism is endless. I often her the laments of black women saying they want a strong black man. When they get a man of such qualifications they have said he's to stubborn or to career driven or set in his ways. Are those the qualities that make a man strong? Oh I forgot he is a conservative too.

I tell the woman you want to see what type of man that you have tell him no sex period make him concentrate on other aspects of the relationship. I hear the "sistas" say you got to test drive before making the commitment." Well there are not enough cars to be driven then.

Yes black men have their problems but how many black women have turned down that blue collar hard working man and went for the MBA that is a cad or a heal?

[thathamiltonwoman]

Most of the good guys are already married because girls like me snathched them up in college but you are correct.It is time for black women to start looking farther afield.