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THe bad part for parents of delayed-college-kids is that the expense just gets put off. We'll probably be paying for college til we retire! On that note, I'm crackin' a beer.

The adament part of her parents shows one of two things. Either there was a problem that truly just reared its head, or the parents knew of a problem and just never did anything. I am not placing blame on them, just stating observations.

Now, to the college thing. If he puts it off for a couple years or longer, then make sure you DO NOT claim him on your taxes and that he claims independents. If he still lives with you, charge him rent and other bills. This will GREATLY reduce the cost of college. It may even get it low enough that he can pay his own way and the degree will be worth even more!

The added maturity will lead to better study habits and better grades. If he isn't ready yet, and is smart enough to recognize it, this choice will lead to better opportunities than you can foresee.

Good luck. It's beer thirty for me to. Have a great weekend.