I'll give you Phillipians 2:6-7 to answer:
7 but emptied himself, taking the form of a slave, being born in human likeness. And being found in human form,
8 he humbled himself and became obedient to the point of death-- even death on a cross. - (NSRV)
So it was an "emptied" (vs 7 NSRV) essence of God in Christ. It was impossible for ALL of God to be limited to a human form, Jesus was not limited to the earthly body. He was in heaven at the same time he was on earth:
And no man hath ascended up to heaven, but he that came down from heaven, even the Son of man which is in heaven. - (John 3:13 KJV)
The incarnation was a limiting of God's presence to a human body. This is what Mary bore. To say she bore God in any fashion other than derivatively is not accurate.