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'Just Around the Corner' ~ Iraqi Freedom veteran's widow meets husband's returning soldiers
Defend America ^ | March 18, 2004 | Kelly Pate / Fort Campbell, Ky., Public Affairs Office

Posted on 03/18/2004 9:08:17 AM PST by Ragtime Cowgirl

Photo, caption below.
Sherry Orlando at work in the Public Affaris Office with photo displayed nearby of late husband Lt. Col. Kim Orlando former commander of 716th Military Police. U.S. Army photo
'Just Around the Corner'
Iraqi Freedom veteran's widow meets husband's returning soldiers
 
By Kelly Pate / Fort Campbell, Ky., Public Affairs Office

FORT CAMBPELL, KY, March 6, 2004 — She waited outside Hangar 2 in the damp pre-dawn air for a sign of landing lights. Her husband would have been among the more than 200 716th Military Police Battalion soldiers returning to Fort Campbell that day.

U.S. Army Lt. Col. Kim Orlando did not live to enjoy the reunion, but Sherry Orlando met the plane anyway.

“My military family is still here,” she said.

Roy Dantzler, a former soldier who served under Orlando’s command in Iraq, was among the “family” members in the crowd. Dantzler described Orlando as a unique leader.

“He talked about God a lot. He was the one you could go to and talk to,” Dantzler said. “He and Sherry are the spitting image of each other. For such a tragedy to have happened, and for Sherry to be here and welcome the unit home represents a strong woman.”

In charge of 716th, the 43-year-old Orlando commanded the largest and most scattered unit in Multinational Division South until tragedy stuck on Oct. 16, 2003.

The incident occurred near midnight on the16th when a confrontation between his MPs and some armed Iraqi loyalists turned violent in Karbala. The armed men were reported violating curfew on the streets of the Shiite Muslim-dominated city. Orlando and others drove to the scene in response.

“Things got heated, and shots were fired,” Sherry said. “He and two other soldiers were killed that night.”

Besides Orlando, Staff Sgt. Joseph Bellavia, 28, and Cpl. Sean Grilley, 24, died in the resulting firefight.

Sherry received the news shortly afterward. She recalled how the knock on her door sounded as she and her sons prepared for another day of work and school that Friday morning back in October, and the sight of soldiers in Class A uniforms at her door.

“There’s absolutely no doubt when you open the door and see that,” said Sherry, who felt fortunate to have personal friends on the team that brought word to her.

Son Greg, 17, showed strength in the face of unwelcome news. “[Greg] said, ‘Mom, I want to go to school,’” Sherry said.

Jason, 11, agreed with his older brother, and both boys reported to class that day. The next day, the unit’s loss still hung heavy in the air, this time inside the hangar.

Shortly after the invocation, which included a prayer for Sherry and her family, men and women still in full combat gear were allowed to mingle with loved ones. Some soldiers opted to first embrace Sherry before joining their own families.

“He loved his soldiers. He knew them. They weren’t just a body or a face. It was important to him to take care of them,” Sherry said. “He was a good person. He loved what he did.”

Orlando’s successor, Lt. Col. Ashton Hayes, praised the former commander for establishing an outstanding unit.

“The loss of Col. Orlando as well as other soldiers was tragic,” Hayes said. “He had already set the battalion up where the officers and NCOs and soldiers just picked up and kept on going. He will never be replaced, but people stepped up to take his place. It’s just the way leaders and people in the Army work.”

Capt. Kerrie Serafniowicz, Headquarters and Headquaters Detachment, 716th MP battalion, embraced Sherry Orlando when troops were released to mingle with family during the return ceremony March 6. U.S. Army photo

After 21 years in the Army, Orlando was nearing retirement. He had been deployed twice before -- to Operation Desert Storm and then to Bosnia and Herzegovina. The couple had been married 18 years.

With the planes arriving at Fort Campbell in past month, Sherry said it was tough for their sons to stay positive.

“The schools, the counselors, the principals, the teachers, everybody has been incredibly supportive,” she said.

Sherry said the grief comes periodically.

“I think your body has a way of taking care of you,” Sherry said. “For the first couple of weeks or so you go into this numb stage where it’s almost like everything is not real. Then it kind of starts to click. Life happens. You can’t really shut down, especially if you have children because they’re depending on you.”

Major Gen. David Petraeus, commanding general of 101st Airborne Division and Fort Campbell, said he has not forgotten the community’s response to the loss, nor Sherry’s strength.

“When [Orlando] was buried, there were police cars and other emergency vehicles and civilian cars lining the highway and every overpass all the way from Fort Campbell to Nashville,” Petraeus said. “Sherry Orlando has been a tower of strength. Her response to the toughest imaginable blow has been something in which all of us who know her take enormous pride.

“She is an incredible woman and she has had some huge rocks added to her ruck sack, and she has borne the load very well.”

Sherry understands when people have difficulty finding the words to say when a tragedy has happened but hopes people can go on treating her as they always have.

Her personal mantra is based on a literary piece written by Henry Scott Holland:

“Death is nothing at all.
I have only slipped away into the next room.
I am I, and you are you.
Whatever we were to each other,
That we are still…..
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near,
Just around the corner. All is well.”

Sherry held fast to that mantra in the pre-dawn moments as the plane touched down upon bringing the unit home. With a U.S. flag in hand, she lifted her face to see over the mass of banner-waving fanfare in front of her as the airliner taxied into view.

No signs of emotional turmoil showed on her face -- only a steady gaze, which grew into an equally steady smile as folks intermittently came by with hugs and words of condolence.

Sherry moved up closer to the rope as desert-camouflaged troops began filing out of the aircraft. The crowd cheered as the last soldier descended the ramp and walked past. Sherry turned to go inside the hangar, but abruptly halted, overcome by tears.

“Your head knows he’s not getting off the plane, but your heart looks for him anyway.”



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1 posted on 03/18/2004 9:08:18 AM PST by Ragtime Cowgirl
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To: Ragtime Cowgirl
Another member of my family. "Of the Troops, For the Troops".
2 posted on 03/18/2004 9:12:32 AM PST by dts32041 ( "If Bill Shakespeare lived today, would he have written a sequel call "Egglet"?")
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To: MJY1288; xzins; Calpernia; TEXOKIE; Alamo-Girl; windchime; Grampa Dave; anniegetyourgun; ...
March 6, 2004 — She waited outside Hangar 2 in the damp pre-dawn air for a sign of landing lights. Her husband would have been among the more than 200 716th Military Police Battalion soldiers returning to Fort Campbell that day.

U.S. Army Lt. Col. Kim Orlando did not live to enjoy the reunion, but Sherry Orlando met the plane anyway.

“My military family is still here,” she said.

 

 

3 posted on 03/18/2004 9:14:45 AM PST by Ragtime Cowgirl ("(We)..come to rout out tyranny from its nest. Confusion to the enemy." - B. Taylor, US Marine)
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To: Ragtime Cowgirl
Bump
4 posted on 03/18/2004 9:22:06 AM PST by SAMWolf (I think animal testing is a terrible idea; they get all nervous and give the wrong answers.)
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To: Ragtime Cowgirl
“Your head knows he’s not getting off the plane, but your heart looks for him anyway.”

Sad and respectful BUMP.

5 posted on 03/18/2004 9:25:14 AM PST by snippy_about_it (Fall in --> The FReeper Foxhole. America's History. America's Soul.)
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To: Ragtime Cowgirl; TEXOKIE
God Bless Sherrie Orlando. Her husband is a hero proved in liberating strife, and she is one classy lady.

Tex, we've got a prayer need/field trip opportunity over here.
6 posted on 03/18/2004 9:26:45 AM PST by Mr. Silverback (Caring about the Final Four for the first time ever. Go Air Force!)
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To: Ragtime Cowgirl
Shortly after the invocation, which included a prayer for Sherry and her family, men and women still in full combat gear were allowed to mingle with loved ones. Some soldiers opted to first embrace Sherry before joining their own families. “He loved his soldiers. He knew them. They weren’t just a body or a face. It was important to him to take care of them,” Sherry said.

We can tell, ma'am. Dang, why's my screen getting blurry?

7 posted on 03/18/2004 9:40:21 AM PST by Mr. Silverback (Caring about the Final Four for the first time ever. Go Air Force!)
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To: Ragtime Cowgirl
What a heartbreaking and yet inspiring story! Thank you for posting it. Prayers for Shelley Orlando and her sons.
8 posted on 03/18/2004 9:41:12 AM PST by Miss Marple
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To: Ragtime Cowgirl
Thank you for ping. Respectful bump. I admire her for what she did. "Sherry Orlando met the plane anyway."

There is a poem I remember one of my friends in school wrote it and goes like this:

On hills of fire, I stood strong
When I looked up I saw the clouds above
I saw birds flying and bullets next to me
I went with my buddies and charge those hills.

As we approach the hill we knew we might not live
But I charged that hill for it is my will
Suddenly I felt a pain; I close my eyes and saw light

As I remember good things I have done
I was embrace by Love of light.
And then I saw my family in sadness, but they
Don’t know I am next to them.

As I charge those hills, I will always
Be with them and when times come by God will
They will be with me and there will be no more tears.

This is for you Sherry Orlando. God peace be with you.
9 posted on 03/18/2004 9:41:49 AM PST by bogdanPolska12
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To: Ragtime Cowgirl
Son Greg, 17, showed strength in the face of unwelcome news. “[Greg] said, ‘Mom, I want to go to school,’” Sherry said. Jason, 11, agreed with his older brother, and both boys reported to class that day.

These kids are my heroes.

10 posted on 03/18/2004 9:42:49 AM PST by Mr. Silverback (Caring about the Final Four for the first time ever. Go Air Force!)
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Kim Orlando was my friend. He and Sherry took the time after I'd left his class in the advanced course, to check in on my wife and kids and invite them to dinner while I was stationed in Korea. They were both the nicest, most giving people I'd met in 17 years in the army.

When I met with Kim in Diwaniyah, the first thing out of his mouth was "How are the wife and kids" After 9 years, he remembered them by name.

Guys like that are too few and too far between in the military and in life.

The day he was killed was the worst day of my own deployment.
11 posted on 03/18/2004 9:56:27 AM PST by military cop (military cop)
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To: Ragtime Cowgirl
Bump!
12 posted on 03/18/2004 10:01:16 AM PST by Alamo-Girl
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To: military cop
Thank you for sharing, for reminding us of the price you pay for our freedom, for honoring your friend here, and for your service, military cop.
13 posted on 03/18/2004 10:11:48 AM PST by Ragtime Cowgirl ("(We)..come to rout out tyranny from its nest. Confusion to the enemy." - B. Taylor, US Marine)
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What a great story.
14 posted on 03/18/2004 10:20:08 AM PST by waRNmother.armyboots
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To: military cop; dts32041; Mr. Silverback; snippy_about_it; SAMWolf; bogdanPolska12; Alamo-Girl; ...
Army Lt. Col. Kim S. Orlando

Army Lt. Col. Kim S. Orlando, 43, of Tennessee; commanding officer of the 716th Military Police Battalion, 101st Airborne Division (Air Assault), based in Fort Campbell, Ky.; killed while attempting to negotiate with armed men who were congregating on a road near a mosque after curfew on Oct. 16 in Karbala, Iraq. Also killed in the attack were Staff Sgt. Joseph P. Bellavia and Cpl. Sean R. Grilley. Seven other U.S. soldiers were wounded.

• • • • •

Killed: October 16, 2003

http://www.militarycity.com/valor/2314074.html



101st Airborne remembers lieutenant colonel killed in Iraq

Associated Press

FORT CAMPBELL, Ky. — The highest-ranking Army officer killed in hostile fire in Iraq never hesitated to lead his soldiers personally, whether on a three-mile run in below-freezing temperatures or on patrol in the streets of Karbala.

That was how comrades from the 101st Airborne Division remembered Lt. Col. Kim S. Orlando during an Oct. 24 funeral service.

Six pallbearers, decked in the dark-green ceremonial uniforms bearing the “Screaming Eagle” patch of the 101st, waited patiently to bring Orlando’s casket into the brick-and-glass chapel. They stood at attention for nearly an hour as hundreds of family, friends and soldiers filed in.

Maj. Darryl Johnson, of the 716th Military Police Battalion, said Orlando, the battalion commander, was “constantly moving to the front and disregarding his own safety.”

Orlando’s funeral was held the same day the Army announced that another soldier from the division was killed by small arms fire in Mosul, Iraq. That soldier was not immediately identified.

Orlando’s death shocked soldiers and friends.

Terry Moreau, a retired colonel and former commander of the 716th, said he has received numerous messages of condolence, some angry, since Orlando was killed.

“Expletives were not deleted,” he said. “I got to tell you, there’s a lot of frustration there” among Orlando’s men.

Orlando, 43, was posthumously award the Bronze Star and the Purple Heart. He was among three Fort Campbell soldiers killed Oct. 16 in a clash with gunmen guarding the headquarters of a Shiite cleric in southern Iraq.

The two other soldiers killed were Staff Sgt. Joseph P. Bellavia, 28, of Wakefield, Mass.; and Cpl. Sean R. Grilley, 24, of San Bernardino, Calif. Services for Bellavia and Grilley were pending, according to a statement from Fort Campbell.

The battalion comprised no fewer than 400 soldiers, and Orlando made it a point to learn the name of each one, said Sgt. Maj. Rodney Smith, a battalion member.

“For a battalion commander to know your name, that touches anybody,” Smith said.

His soldiers and his family were paramount to Orlando. When not on duty, he spent as much time as possible with his wife, Sherry, and his two sons, Gregory, 16, and Jason, 10.

He enlisted in the Army as a military policeman in 1982 and was commissioned at Fort Benning, Ga., in 1986. He served in the 1991 Persian Gulf War, and thereafter rose quickly to the rank of lieutenant colonel. He was picked to study at the FBI’s National Academy in Quantico, Va. — an exclusive honor for military policemen.

Friends and comrades said Orlando excelled in everything he expected from his soldiers, including physical fitness.

Chaplain Maj. Steve Turner recalled participating in a particular run Orlando led his soldiers on one frigid January morning. Shorts only — no warm-up pants; jackets were optional.

“We got to the line; the whistle blew. And Col. Orlando led the pack,” Turner said. “He led by example.”

When the service ended, soldiers emerged from the chapel, adjusting their black berets. A funeral procession left Fort Campbell for a private burial at Nashville National Cemetery in Tennessee, where Orlando grew up.


15 posted on 03/18/2004 10:26:40 AM PST by Ragtime Cowgirl ("(We)..come to rout out tyranny from its nest. Confusion to the enemy." - B. Taylor, US Marine)
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Bump!
16 posted on 03/18/2004 10:36:27 AM PST by Alamo-Girl
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To: Ragtime Cowgirl
Bookmarked so I can finish reading it when my eyes clear up. Next time I want a tissue alert!
17 posted on 03/18/2004 10:43:41 AM PST by BykrBayb (Temporary tagline. Applied to State of New Jersey for permanent tagline (12/24/03).)
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To: Ragtime Cowgirl
“Your head knows he’s not getting off the plane, but your heart looks for him anyway.”
Tears in my eye, I close my office door. Prayers for comfort and peace - that peace that passes all understanding that comes from God above...
18 posted on 03/18/2004 10:53:02 AM PST by GrandEagle
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To: Ragtime Cowgirl
Why is the screen so blury - and what's this moisture in my eyes - must be all the construction work in my building (yah - right) Snif Snif
19 posted on 03/18/2004 11:09:02 AM PST by Core_Conservative ("right now western Europe is looking like a dead horse." Mark Steyn)
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OMH Rags...thank you for posting this. I am bawling my eyes out!
20 posted on 03/18/2004 11:10:50 AM PST by StarCMC (God bless the 969th in Iraq and their Captain, my brother...God bless them all!)
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