[takenoprisoner]

I lost my cousin in a car crash. Think I want any part of that car as a momento? a souvenier?

No I don't and that's my human nature. So I don't understand
this need to get close with a washer.

[Samwise]

I lost my uncle to a murderer. I cherish with all my heart the badge he was wearing when he died.

Just because you don't understand someone else's feelings doesn't make their feelings wrong.

[Psycho_Bunny]

So you deal with things differently.  BFD.

Stop baiting.