that is the second time you've posted that thought. Sorry, but it can't and doesn't wash.
First, a Christian that prays for you prays not out of pity but of love for another soul, a desire to see all souls find eternal life and at the direction of the Son of God.
Second, until you understand these facts you can never respect Christianity.
Therefore don't implore Christians to "respect your beliefs as your respect" theirs until you actually do.
Can you not see the problem here???