Out of wedlock Sex has a price...and it is one of the things destroying our youth and our nation.

Sex has a price tag ^ | February 29, 2004 | Jeff Head

[MrConfettiMan]

Thanks for the ping, Jeff.

[MrConfettiMan]

Let me relate a story that unraveled this weekend in a local church that involves sex.

Let me relate a story that involves sex that unraveled this weekend in a local church.

I'm sorry, I just had to reword your first sentence. I just struck me as funny the first time I read it.

The story you describe is a tragedy.

[sushiman]

Thanks for the kind remarks , and best of luck to you !

[xzins]

Excellent points, wai.

Haven't heard from you lately. How's it been going?

[FITZ]

Bump -- and I'll certainly look for it for mine.

[Darnright]

>Hollywood has to be a major, major player in the spread of this cancer.

I agree. I think soap operas are dispicable. If they took out the pre-marital sex and adultery out of those things, the shows would last 10 minutes a day, at best.

[Darnright]

>If they took out the pre-marital sex and adultery out of those things,

Oops, that should have read, "If they took the pre-marital sex and adultery out of those things,"

That'll teach me not to use the preview button.

[SLB]

Let me relate a story that unraveled this weekend in a local church that involves sex.
Let me relate a story that involves sex that unraveled this weekend in a local church.

Thanks. Not enough coffee this morning when I first was trying to type.

[harpseal]

Sad.

[NorseWood]

bump

[Stone Mountain]

For one, I have added "bastard" back in my spoken vocabulary, for its actual meaning.

I have a big problem with this one. I think it's wrong to stigmatize a child for the decisions of his/her parents. Say what you like about the people who made the decision, but leave the innocent child out of it...

[Rollee]

Regrets can haunt you forever.

That needs to be repeated.

[Warhammer]

Bookmark for later.

[netmilsmom]

I just want you to know that I read your post and cried for you. I understood totally that it was not your decision and a pain shot through my heart. Men are left out of the loop in these things.
I agree with Jeff. You will see your baby in heaven. If there is anything like purgatory, you are living it.

To your ex-girlfriend, let me relate a story that was (also) told by many of my ex-boss's patients (I worked for a psychiatrist). A FReeper told a story about his SIL who aborted her first child. When she gave birth to the first child she let be born, she began having dreams of the child she aborted. She would see the child who would call her mommy then when the child would grasp her hand, she would startle awake in a sweat.

We poison the minds of our children by telling them that there are no consequences to Premarital Sex! What ever happened to petting like our Parents did?

[rogers21774]

We poison the minds of our children by telling them that there are no consequences to Premarital Sex! What ever happened to petting like our Parents did?

Whatever happened to just holding hands? Petting leads to "heavy petting", which leads to... well, you get the picture.

[Melas]

That is the most ignorant thing I've ever read.

Let's suppose for a moment that I agree with your evaluation of the situation, and your conclusion that shame must be reintroduced.

You're shaming the victim, not the perpetrators. The offspring is the one that gets hung with the label, and the offspring is the only party here that's innocent of all wrong doing.

[netmilsmom]

You are right!!!!!!!

[King Prout]

do you go into the genetic ramifications of the consequences of rampant promiscuous extramarital sex?

If you do - that takes stones.

If you did not - well, then it is just another screed... worthwhile and right, perhaps, but still just more moralistic moaning.

[DLfromthedesert]

I'm so sorry. That girl is probably also regretting what she did. Most of these young women do not get the information they are entitled to before they make a truly informed decision.

[Lorianne]

Labeling a child a "bastard" is how we got in the abortion quagmire we're in today. That and unilateraly demonizing women who procreate outside of marriage. Demonizing the mother and the child is a sure recipe for anti-life.