Thank you for sharing that as I struggled for a time with the "forsaken" passage and I've been studying it. Here's something that I found that I'd like to add:
"We need to be carefull not to overdo the physical agony of the cross to the exclusion of the spiritual impact. Actually, the physical pain was not the worst part. It was the awful seperation that occured between the the Son and the Father when "all our sin was laid on him." At that moment the Lord Jesus felt the crushing weight of all mankind's iniquity."
- Charles Swindoll, Growing Deep in the Christian Life
The pain of Jesus being seperated from God for the first time must have been, well, I don't pretend to imagine.
Thanks again for your post.