Now you can spin and sputter and stick your fingers in your ears and scream "I don't hear you" all you like, but your spin, sputter, finger sticking and screaming don't change the facts. I've rubbed your nose in the truth. Maybe you don't like it, but you CANNOT claim not to know what the Catholic Church actually teaches, and you CANNOT claim that her teaching is consistent with your accusation.
You CAN retract your false accusation. Or you can stand naked in the public square, revealed as a liar.
Your choice.