Too many people treat this like it isn't that big of thing because they didn't have the child long enough to know him and it isn't like losing an older child but it hurts in ways that only they know. Please send them my sympathy and show them a lot of love and compassion for me.
tiki, PLEASE tell your niece how VERY PROUD I am of her and her choice to keep her baby as long as she could. Give her a Grammie hug?!
Everyone...
Words fail me now...God bless you all, each of you.