did you give her a disease?...maybe you got her pregnant....how wonderfully Christian of you.....
a father should never make excuses for his 15 year olds to be engaging in sex, I don't care if he thought the guy was 17...it makes no differance...
I am beyond the idea of "saving it" because that might be too much to ask in our sexually charged rotten culture, but at least can we lenghten our kids childhoods so they might still enjoy their tender years before getting into all the complications of sexuality?
no one seems to care about young people anymore...we think that encouraging them to act like grown adults that we are just being good to them...
well, were not....
We don't think that, we pretend that. It's easier in the short run to be permissive. Harder in the long run.
I remember back in my high school days my friend's parents putting their 13-year-old daughter on the pill. She's a mess today. Very sad.
Where do you see the word "orgy" in my post?
did you give her a disease?...
As I said in my post, I had been a virgin up to that point, so I'm about 99.99% sure I didn't give her an STD.
maybe you got her pregnant...
That did not happen although it certainly could have, which brings me back to my main point: If we had access to condoms back then, we would have used them rather than taking a chance with unprotected sex, which as you point out, can lead to STD's and unwanted pregnancy.
how wonderfully Christian of you...
Thanks for bringing that up. My other point was that despite the fact that I had spend my entire childhood and adolescence going to Sunday School, church services, Bible Camp, Youth Group, Christian Retreats, and a host of other Christian activities, I still had sex at age 15/16 with girl who had been raised on a similar Christian diet. I don't advocate sex at that age, but I'm not about to close my eyes and cover my ears and pretend it doesn't happen, which is why I'm not neccesarily going to fault a parent (as opposed to a teacher), who makes condoms available to his or her teenager knowing that he or she is going to do it regardless of what the parent might say.