Just the idea this a subject of debate, shows how far gone our society already is.
Not only that you may end up paying for it in higher insurance rates. Does anyone think that the numbers on the national population of homos, risk of AIDS, etc, the homosexual lobby have been throwing at us for years will be taken at face value by the insurance industry for setting their rates? You can bet the farm as the answer is no.
Insurance companies will do tons of research setting up new actuarial tables for married people. My guess is that the tables for married gays will show a higher risk factor. That won't fly with them so they'll run to the courts crying unfair. Liberal judges will take their side as usual so the insurance companies will only have one choice. Raise the rates for everyone.