You can't make this exclusion if you are going to make broad statements about all your genes existing in your parents. Obviously if such a "fact" were true, evolution would be impossible, or the mechanisms quite different from what are currently theorized.
Your exclusion is like saying, "excluding the oceans, lakes and rivers, earth is a rather dry place".
I certainly can. Scientists do it all of the time. Ever hear of a perfect gas? It is a starting point. Now answer the cross-species gene question and tell me how its survivability is tied to the reproduction of an individual or even a species.