[altura]

On your recommendation, I may get the book for my daughter.

Our priest Sunday talked about marriage and used the analogy of deposits and withdrawals.

Everyone has withdrawal times ... when they are cranky or depressed, etc. The thing to do is make a lot of deposits ... being supportive, fun, nice, loving, so that there is still a balance when you have to take a withdrawal.

I thought that was pretty neat.

My daughter is better on withdrawals than on deposits.

[homemom]

I like your priest's analogy of deposits and withdrawls. I'm going to get my daughter a copy of the book, and a copy of Stupid Things Women do to Mess up Their Lives when she turns about 18 or so (maybe earlier?)--long BEFORE she thinks about marriage. I recommend any/all of Dr. Laura's books.