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why is it you guys with the "Y" chromosome can't get the dishes the last 6"

Heh - I resemble that remark !! LOL

I haven't read it yet, but wouldn't surprise me if Dr Laura's latest book has the answer to that question: The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands.

***I haven't read it yet, but wouldn't surprise me if Dr Laura's latest book has the answer to that question: The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands.***

Mike, Mike, PCow, HighWheeler, other guys reading this, cover your ears . . . I mean eyes--I want to talk to the women only . . .

I guess it kind of does . . . to all the women out there, it is truly a wonderful book. Until I read it I didn't realize how vulnerable men are, how much they want to take care of us, how much they need our care and nurturing. One thing she says is that we CANNOT base our nice actions on his--we have to act first.

I've been doing some of the things the book suggests--I have not been a good wife lately. But I feel so good about what I'm doing for my husb, and it's not hard things to do, either. And YES, I am reaping the benefits, big time. Last night we were sitting on the couch and HE offered to give ME a backrub!!!

Also of much significance (I'll spare you the long and painful history of this) today he told his mom that he was DONE doing things for his dad, it was time to take care of his wife and family.

I know these positive changes are due a bunch to reading the book and applying the principles. It's a short, easy to read book, and worth it.

OK guys, you can open your eyes now . . .