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the only solutions at this point is 1. sue under some federal court theory and get a stay. 2. stop issuing marriage licenses to anyone thus all are equal, or 3. SJC is conviced to stay their order pending a vote. (not going to happen)

Then you will have two years of anecdotal stories of don't hurt my feeeeeeeelings.

The only solution for all states and jurisdictions ithe a federal amendment.