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Someone else once said (about men):"You can date a thousand different women and have sex with all of them. But, suck one c**k, and you're just another [fill in whatever derogatory term for a male homosexual is currently in vogue].

That's what one of my friends said. "A guy cannot be 'experimenting' or 'bisexual.' Once he has sex with another guy, he's proven gay."

I would never consider sleeping with another man, but I don't know that I agree with her. I knew some, to say the least, *very* confused young men in the course of my high school career, and I don't think any of them had a blinking CLUE who they were or where they were headed. (Actually, judging by what some of them did after we graduated, I'm still not sure they have a clue.)

I knew some, to say the least, *very* confused young men in the course of my high school career, and I don't think any of them had a blinking CLUE who they were or where they were headed

I don't buy that whole 'confusion' thing...I was never confused and nobody I know has ever been 'confused'.

As long as there has been no abuse involved, people know what 'floats their boat' once they hit puberty, if not way before.

And no amount of drinking or alcohol will change that.