You'll be saying "all of that is OK with me; let's have four more years of it."
I don't approve of any of those, and I will vote for those who support my principles. Or I won't vote.
I like to vote with my head. I sympathize with your point of view; however, Congress allots the money. Congress can cut the spending. Congress can trim the budget. We need many, many more "Republitarians" (as Larry Elder calls them) in Congress. Candidates who respect the original intent of the Constitution. Candidates who respect individual liberties.
There is no perfect candidate (except maybe me for me or you for you!). The election of a President is necessarily a practical matter. The President "sets the tone." I'd like to see G W Bush get back on the straight and narrow. He has strayed, but if he can't "spend" a dime without willing accomplices in the Congress.