True rape **IS** about violence. I know this very personally. Your assumption I am supporting a feminist agenda by admitting a truly violent rape is ridiculous...and incredibly insulting. Real rapists should be held accountable in a big way.
There **are** women out there who **cry** rape when it wasn't rape at all. They should be held accountable in a big way for ruining a man's life.
Please don't confuse the two.