It's only through my beloved mother, that I knows Mrs. Guest. I am too young to have traveled in that circle and too old, to have been in her daughter's circle. LOL Her estate is just indcredible! The luncheon was nice; not too little, not too much, and a lot of fun. A little while ago, I ran across the notes I took that day, when looking for something else entirely.
OTOH, I know a very great deal about Martha; none of it very nice! :-)
near Old Westbury is it not? a grand home, I'd like to see it.