[MediaMole]

You should consider a shotgun.

If are going to get a handgun, then I would recommend getting a .357 revolver and loading it with .38 special ammunition.

If you want an automatic, make sure you can try any model before you buy. You need to make sure you can..

1. Hold it comfortably and consistently pull the trigger. Some grips are large and the trigger pull is long.

2. Rack the slide. Some slides are very difficult to retract, so you may not be able to clear a jammed cartridge.

3. Handle the recoil. Lighter guns have more recoil, but heavy guns can be tiring to hold.

My personal recommendation would be a Browning High Power in 9mm if you want an automatic. It has many safety features. Firing pin safety, magazine disconnect and a safety on the weapon.

Get good training, both in handling the firearm and in the legal aspects of self defense.

[BooBoo1000]

Good to see the HiPower get the credit it deserves. It is a really great pistol, and has stood the test of time. Mine is in the drawer by my bed.