Sure it is. Spend your own money. How effective do you think the federal government will be? This is the same government that lets 12 million illegals and terrorists waltz across our borders.
There were more marriages back when the government didn't have all the many social programs and handouts. It's simple --- just end all that. End all welfare, all food stamps, all WIC, all free health care. Then unwed mothers will think twice about having children with low-life losers who don't stay around to help them feed those children.