[conservonator]

So, the wives should just endure martyrdom? Just like that?

I don't know, actually. I can’t help but feel less than enthusiastic about the use of condoms for anything. There are other solutions, this one happens to be both the easiest and the most socially acceptable. Doesn't mean it’s the right solution.

[sinkspur]

There are other solutions, this one happens to be both the easiest and the most socially acceptable.

What's the next one up the scale? The next less easy and less socially acceptable? I'm serious.

[cajungirl]

well, it may not be the "right solution" for you but hey, you aren't the one who is going to die and leave your children as orphans. Easy to take a moral stand when someone else pays the priice. Pure moral vanity.