[riri]

I believe you nurture the man into the man you want him to be. Everything else falls into place.

People who are concerned with stuff to inflate their self worth usually end up with not much in most departments. Except maybe, a bunch of stuff.

[Quix]

A bunch of

SAWDUST

in terms of value . . .

which they painfully realize if he gets killed by a drunk driver the next day after a major sawdust purchase/gift.