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To: chris1
But your being teased

Not actively, and she is just like any other woman who can't fathom the frustration of constant sexual rejection. This is just an area where women have zero empathy for men. Relatively few have ever been turned down for sex by their husbands, and almost none have been continually rejected night after night for years.

For her it is just a little extra attention before she grunts and rolls over to fall asleep. She hardly notices it until it is conspicuously absent, and is completely blind to the disappointment it represents regardless of all efforts to point it out to her.

When she does give in, she feels like he should be satisfied for some weeks, and is completely exasperated with any expression of disappointment while the last episode is anything but a distant memory. In her mind, he is being entirely unreasonable, as she had sex with him just last week. The advances are welcome, his expectation that even a sizable minority be accepted are not.

542 posted on 01/07/2004 11:42:16 AM PST by hopespringseternal
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To: hopespringseternal
I really respect your feelings on this. I have been there, and it is really amazing how many men are having these same feelings and experiences like this. I have never really been on a thread where people were so thoughtful and deep about this issue. Kind of reassuring knowing I am not alone sometimes with these things.
543 posted on 01/07/2004 11:55:15 AM PST by chris1
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