[Taliesan]

The mantra that it is all the man's fault is a terrible.

We can at least agree on this.

[chris1]

Every action garners a reaction. When a person tries to do something nice for another person and is rebuffed, the person who tried to do something nice will maybe try again, but will feel some hesitation the next time because he/she does not want to get rebuffed. This goes on and on and on. If a man is rebuffed for sex by his wife over and over, after a while he will stop trying, maybe look somewhere else, or just give up what should be a special part of his and her lives.

[hopespringseternal]

The mantra that it is all the man's fault is a terrible copout.

I left out a word.