[Quix]

Men are much LESS mind readers than women.

And they are often clueless about how to respond. Even if told. Often they need repeatedly led by the hand--perhaps in sex quite literally.

Men learn much better by doing than by hearing.

[longtermmemmory]

You really have bought the pop-psychology line about men havn't you?

However it sounds like you are demonstrating everything Dr. Laura says is bad about women in relationships with men. Now I don't agree with everyting in her book but at least I understand where she is going with her concepts. It is most definitly not where you are.

[MEGoody]

"Men learn much better by doing than by hearing."

Based on my experience with hubby, I'd have to agree. But they can learn, and an awful lot of them are quite willing to learn what makes wife happy (not just in bed). We just need to ask them - and be specific.