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I wonder why, if men have wives who don't enjoy sex, that they don't question their technique and approach? It's not like women should have to endure sex - if they prefer root canals, something's wrong with someone!

Excellent point!
My favorite saying is....
"A woman would rather have no sex than bad sex....
To a man, there is no such thing as bad sex."

I wonder why, if men have wives who don't enjoy sex, that they don't question their technique and approach? It's not like women should have to endure sex - if they prefer root canals, something's wrong with someone!

Ask the average woman. Her big problem with the way her husband has sex is the fact that he wants to have it in the first place. Most will tell you they enjoy it, but for some reason that enjoyment doesn't translate to wanting it.

Too bad that sort of mentality doesn't translate to chocolate.

Besides, "not wanting it" gives her all the power in the relationship. Some men are catching on to that power play, though, and using it. Some women are finding out to their sorrow that not being chased around the bed is a lot worse than putting up with it a little too often.