[Lazamataz]

I had a car paid off, but got married to someone who had no car. Marriage over, he took my car, and I have another 18 months of car payments. Sigh...

Wow, what a wonderful example of keeping private things private. ;^)

I guess it's okay for her but not for me? Another one of those sort of deals?

[technochick99]

I did this before I decided to address the issue - show you how it feels, ya know. After I did it I realized that it wouldn't be effective since you wouldn't be able to tell that I was doing that. Mind you, this is once versus several times you have done it.