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How weird was that?

That isn*t weird. I think it was very sweet of you to try. She should have been flattered that you still remembered her. Did you ever try to look her up when you returned home again? Maybe if you did she would remember you and go out with you. It*s definitely worth a try.

Thank you for saying so. She seemed upset at the time because some guy was calling her that she did not know, and who also knew where she went to high school, and I guess I can understand that. She also seemed kind of hostile, possibly frightened, but also curious. However, she never acted flattered or glad that I called. Maybe she remembered me later sometime after we hung up the phone. It was only after her friends in high school told me that she had a crush on me that I approached her to begin with many years ago.

I did ask her if I could call her again and she did say yes, but I was emotionally traumatized by this because I thought about her for years, and the conversation did not go well. Maybe I was overly sensitive, or just too proud and full of self importance, but I was also too crushed to ever phone her again. That was seven years ago.