How interesting you consider a male to parasite if he still lives at home with their parents, while if they are female, it is because she can afford not too and you make excuses to support your view, while you give no examples as to why to guy is a parasite.
My, how sexist of you.
The young mother in question works as a receptionist, low pay. The young man who is 34 wouldn't work in a pie factory tasting pies. He has never held a job more than a few months at a time and his last job was three years ago.
You figgure it out.