Any divorced mother of two needs someone to watch her children while she works.
And, she's likely using child support to pay for it, no matter who initiated the divorce.
Child support is different than 'soaking' her ex. Or do you disagree?
Child support is often "soaking the ex," especially in cases where the woman initiates the divorce. In fact, "soaking the ex" is often the reason for the divorce. So, yes, I might disagree.