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Thanks for the info. Even if your mini-analysis is correct, none of it excuses her behavior toward her daughter. It does rather reinforce the idea that she needs help.

We disagree. I'm not going to electronically psychoanalyze this person or her "relationship" with this fat loser.

I'll leave it at that.

She didn't deal with it fast enough, but she did end up doing the right thing. She's right to fight for a long prison sentence for fatty... he's going to re-offend if he isn't put away.

I'm not sure if its the kind of help you want her to get, but she is getting counseling, according to another
A king County Journal article.

From the same article:

" Crowder is in counseling and trying to work through her grief over what happened.

Although Lehman isn't the biological father of her daughter, Abigail, he was there for most of the pregnancy, was the first person to hold her, helped pick out her name and was a father to her in every sense of the word, Crowder said.

``I had a family with him,'' she said.

Because he helped pay the bills when the couple lived together on Auburn's Lee Hill, Crowder has had to move back in with her mother. She believes her daughter has some sense of what happened and she worries she will remember things she shouldn't.

Most of all, she wants Lehman to pay for what he did to Abigail and for betraying her trust.

``I don't want another child to go through that and I don't want another parent to have to go through what I had to go through,'' she said."

She's right in the sense that another parent and another child will go through hell if he isn't put away. He should be put away permanently, if you ask me.