Well, then I guess you and I will have to agree to disagree on this one. I see it as a man trying to be decent, but maybe being a little awkward in it. As such, I will repeat exactly what he posted here, and stand by my opinion that it really is not as bad as people are making it out to be...
Dane Said:
I have been monitoring these two threads and will add my 2 cents worth, FWIW.
Suicide is not noble. I can empathize with TILH's situation, but taking one's life and the pain it causes to his loved ones, in which they will be internally taking the blame for LITH's sucide for years is an inherantly selfish act.
Maybe it is the way our society morphed, where only "me" matters.
Prayers to TILH's family and loved ones.
End Dane
You are totally offbase on this one.
I really don't think I am. While a little gruff, I see Dane as having said a few things that perhaps she needed to hear, whether she believes she needed to hear it or not.
The truth isn't always pretty, but it IS the truth.